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The what inspires you Wednesday post isn't by a guest this week, it is from yours truly!

My students inspire me. My past students, present kids I get to work with, and the students I am sure to work with in the future ALL inspire me. They all have different abilities and I am amazed by daily. They inspire me to be more giving and loving.

Recently, a student gave me a sack full of rocks. When she gave them to me she acted like she was giving me a bag full of diamonds and I acted just as I was receiving a bag full of diamonds. 🙂 Why? A better question is why not? She was showing her giving heart which is an AMAZING ability of hers. Sure, it was a bag of rocks that were from the playground, but I wanted to make sure she knew how thoughtful and kind her act of giving was in hopes of encouraging her to continue to share that ability!

A past student that inspires me ALWAYS entered my classroom with a "Hi, Miss Bushbaum!" This was my first teaching job and this students ability to light up a room with her singing and cheerful greeting always made my day! I would not be the educator that I am today if it wasn't for all of the things she taught me in that first year.

Another, had the most difficult time catching on to math concepts, but could read any story that was put in front of her. She had the ability to act out those stories like she was on a Broadway stage. She comprehended what she read well behind the expectations for her grade level and her abilities in literacy always inspired me to find other ways for students to find their voice in the classroom!

These are just a few of the examples of students that have inspired me and they also inspired me to write You Will Do Great Things. Every single student, child, teacher, parent, PERSON in this world has different abilities. What a difference it makes when we see them, truly see them for their abilities!

I challenge each of you reading this to share it with someone that needs to hear the message to SEE the abilities in others and I challenge you to do the same.

From the gravel road-



I consider Monsignor Walter Brunkan to be one of the wisest human beings in Butler County, his words circle in my head often. You can beg to differ with me, but I will fight you tooth and nail.  🙂

Photo Credit to the Waterloo Courier

Since he announced his upcoming retirement a couple of months ago, I feel like I have been listening even closer to his message that he gives us each weekend.  Not that I didn’t listen closely before, but with each passing Sunday I feel like each morsel of wisdom he shares with us needs to sink in to my thick skull, which ALWAYS seems to be craving exactly what his message is each weekend.  So not only is he wise, he is a mind reader, I guess that is good and bad since he hears our confessions. 😉

This past weekend Monsignor Brunkan recited the words spoken by Umar ibn al-Khattab  “I have never regretted my silence, but as for my speech I’ve regretted it many times.” BAM, his words hit me straight in the throat, I then had to gulp to swallow them as I mentally rehearsed the drive to church with my girls and husband and the hours of busy Saturday before our drive to church. “I have never regretted my silence, but as for my speech I’ve regretted it many times.”  

We as busy parents, educators, and spouses let things fly out of our mouths all of the time! Do we give those words a second thought in our hurried world?


As parents, we are hustling from this event to the next, hurry up do dishes, hurry up get to practice, hurry up make the meal, hurry up go to sleep, hurry up get out of bed and it goes on and on. The problem is that it goes on and on, but often with hurtful words. Those words aren’t always intended to hurt, sometimes they are just being said because of the stress of the day.  Regardless of the purpose of the words they still sting and burn and leave a lasting scar whether they were little words or big words. Do those words ignite a fire within our children to be the best they can be or were they words that will burn and leave a scar?


As an educator I fully understand the magnitude of demands that are placed on teachers, administrators, and students each day.  I still often hear words that would have been better left unsaid. Again, in the hustle of trying to increase test scores, make sure kids are meeting standards, catching this one up, getting to specials and recess on time; words get said.  Did those words ignite a fire within that child or co-worker to be the best they could be or were they words that would burn deep and leave a scar?


As a spouse, I feel the weight of caring for our family, animals, land, home, finances, all while nurturing a relationship. It is not easy and not for the faint of heart.  Yet, those words still sometimes fly. When there is a rush to get crops in the ground and animals fed, but there is also a softball game and 4-H meeting to attend, those words get said.  When someone forgot that they had said they could take the kids to practice and then had to work late and everyone is rushing to get home to prepare supper and finish laundry, those words get said. At tax time when going through papers and that one big receipt is missing and all of the trucks and cars are torn apart and no receipt is found.  Those words still get said. Do those words that I say or he said ignite the fire within to be the best spouse they can be or do they leave a lasting burn that no ointment will heal?

After reflecting for a few days on the message I heard this weekend, I am asking you to think about those words that Monsignor Brunkan shared.  Do the words that come from your mouth ignite the fire within the people you interact with and encourage them to be the best they can be and dream big and huge or do they burn deep and cause lasting pain?

Deep thoughts from the Gravel Road-


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